suave, cosmopolitan, erudite, genial, amiable, patrician, debonair, affable, avuncular, charming, dapper, raffish, unpretentious, bon vivant, clubbable, garrulous, dandyish, unassuming, easygoing, genteel, dandified, bookish, youngish, gruff, owlish, earthy, rumpled, upwardly mobile, diffident, streetwise, gregarious, effete, taciturn, insouciant, aristocratic, bumptious, brash, undemonstrative, rakish, convivial, laidback, waspish, bespectacled, bohemian, courtly, supercilious, unostentatious, charismatic, saturnine, straitlaced, leisured, tweedy, pugnacious, unshowy, foppish, ingratiating, folksy, stolid, boyish, cultured, unassertive, epicene, elegant, donnish, grandfatherly, mannered, straightlaced, professorial, irascible, imperturbable, staid, cosmopolite, extroverted, haughty, unexcitable, francophile, jovial, haut monde, demotic, prepossessing, roguish, flamboyant, unprepossessing, witty, highbrow, likeable, zestful, ebullient, pompous, fastidious, jocular, studious, modish, droll, nerdish, snobbish, handsomer, personable, archetypal, congenial, polyglot, acerbic, cool, petty, tragic, advanced, awkwardness, blind, boring, civility, clumsiness, concise, destitute, drab, drunken, earnest, flowery, furnishings, furniture, gags, garbage, hassles, blase, decorous, effacing, sedate, vivacious, dignified, businesslike, reticent, virile, austere, carefree

urbanely

gracious, polished, refined, sophisticated, svelte