insecure

fearless, afraid, unapologetic, willing, undaunted, uninhibited, risk taker, loath, unwilling, unintimidated, unashamed, opinionated, reluctant, hesitant, brash, headstrong, forthright, feisty, brave, daring, courageous, outspoken, reticent, unbending, bashful, timid, uncompromising, unembarrassed, resourceful, eager, ballsy, iconoclastic, averse, cocksure, approachable, bold, undeterred, defiant, foolish, assertive, resolute, sphinxlike, unflinching, irrepressible, unbowed, brusk, unyielding, principled, foolhardy, candid, inquisitive, craftiest, levelheaded, unassertive, minded, irreverent, playful, tenacious, pugnacious, improvisational, hemingwayesque, unsentimental, stoic, insouciant, unperturbed, politically incorrect, passionate, unbloodied, embraceable, witty, shrinking violet, honest, empathetic, soberest, dauntless, thickheaded, unfazed, undogmatic, unfettered, unpretentious, unpolished, insolent, unabashed, ornery, unaccustomed, adventurous, charismatic, steadfast, wary, unconcerned, bullheaded, unbendable, plainspoken, patriarchic, unwomanly, polymathic, schoolmarmish, openminded, exuberant, steely, clownlike, ready, goodnatured, demented, guileless, natured, bored, distraught, goodhumored, lazy, spiritless, surly, uncomprehending, vivacious, witless, apprehensive, ashamed, confident, dejected

secure, unapprehensive, unblinking, unfrightened, unshrinking, untroubled