genteel, polite, courtly, mannerly, chivalrous, decorous, sportsmanlike, genial, mannered, gracious, respectful, amiable, courteous, ungentlemanly, congenial, boorish, easygoing, honorable, businesslike, dignified, tactful, manly, considerate, suave, affable, classy, jovial, jocular, unexcitable, ladylike, roguish, gruff, collegial, avuncular, debonair, magnanimous, convivial, pugnacious, taciturn, urbane, charming, erudite, clubbable, civilized, gregarious, equable, undemonstrative, unassuming, dandyish, unpretentious, flamboyant, stoic, dapper, brusk, forthright, unflappable, cantankerous, likeable, statesmanlike, brusque, pugilistic, phlegmatic, graceful, demure, personable, uncouth, good naturedness, studious, undramatic, humble, straitlaced, levelheaded, punctilious, fastidious, schoolmasterly, garrulous, companionable, unostentatious, rebarbative, patrician, cordial, lawyerly, flirtatious, thoughtful, combative, brutish, unmannerly, irascible, unmilitary, deferential, pedantic, brash, pompous, disagreeable, dutiful, confrontational, cavalier, likable, insouciant, uncivil, ungracious, loutish, gentlemanlike, soldierly, nonchalant, effacing, ingratiating, knightly, arrogant

refined